the right to bitch....

i constantly see people complain about this and that.. people will come to me and tell me that "they can't believe this person did this.. did that.. to them... and they are pissed..." the rest of the conversation usually goes like this:

dao- "did you say anything to them?"
complainer - "no"
dao - "why not?"

most of the time imo you have "lost the right to bitch" it goes along the lines of speak now or forever hold your peace...

i understand the natural human tendency is to avoid conflict.. as well as being asian we tend to be submissive.. recently i was in a situation myself where the roles were reversed.. and i too was pissed.. and opted the road of "no conflict"... it's always easier when the ball is in the other court...

... i had lost my right to bitch...